This post is not to talk about whether organ donation (After death) is right/wrong/ legitimate/ legal/ moral or not. This is for those who have already made their decisions and chose to save lives and change the world even after their last breaths.
Someone very close to me was once in need of a kidney. He did dialysis 3 times a week for 3 hours each time. It took lots of time, energy and efforts to stay alive. While we all take our bodies and organs for granted, he needed a kidney to stay alive. Luckily his beloved daughter was a match, and happily donated her kidney to her father, a great man whom I admire and adore greatly.
Everyday, I wake up with one thought in my mind: “How can I make this community, city, country, continent, world, we live in better?” Me, one single soul against chaotic waves and strong winds. How can I participate and make a change? Some days that will be summarized in feeding a 3 years old, and keeping him alive, other days it will be inspiring/ helping/ supporting other souls around me. Few days ago, I achieved something far more important: I registered myself as a proud organ donor at Salmaniya Medical Complex. How? Why? …. Let me tell you my story:
During the last 3 years of my life, I must say that my priorities, my perspective of life, and my goals have shifted a 180 degrees, and I credit that to being a mother. Through the social work I do, I met so many wonderful souls, some of them were dying children whom needed kidneys and livers to be able to survive and blow their 4th, or 5th birthday candles. Believe me, it hurts! As a mother my heart aches every time I see a sick child, and I can’t help. Every time I know they have been admitted and might leave the hospital as forever angels.
Knowing that there is nothing I can do was unbearable, so I had to think hard and brainstorm until I found the one thing I CAN do and will have a great impact on many many souls around me. Register as an organ donor! So I had to pick up the phone and discuss my next move with the person that deserves to be part of this decision the most: My mother. For two reasons:
1- Obviously she is the one who brought me to this world and worked very hard to shape the person whom I have become today.
2- Because she is the person to go to for any religion questions/matters/ confusion. With an exceptional knowledge my mother is considered the “Female scholar” in the Islamic Centre in my home town, and I trust her blindly when it comes to religion. I needed to know that what I am about to do doesn’t conflict with my beliefs. I must admit, it was an ongoing conversation for a while, then she said it: “YES! Go ahead and God Bless you”. I must confess I don’t know what I’ll say to my son if he ever comes to me asking the same thing I asked my mother, but she is a brave, wise, and smart woman and I knew she would do/ say the right thing.
Then I headed to Salmaniya Medical Complex, gate number 6, Kidney Dialysis center and asked for nurse “Huda”.
All you will need:
1- Your Cpr
2- To be 21 years old and above
3- Two witnesses (preferably family members)
Hours: Sunday To Thursday 8:30am-3pm
This is their contact number: 17284938
You will be asked to fill a form, sign and you will get your donor card to be kept with you at all times.
The feeling I got after doing this was pure joy, I finally can serve humanity the way I always wanted to. I know now that no matter what happens, I will be saving someone’s life, and MAN…. That’s enough for me to live the rest of my life free and in peace with myself.